Mal Educado #2 (Bad Manners)

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I previously wrote a blog on this topic a couple years ago, but something that happened on the bus this week brings back the topic.  I was on the bus, standing because I only go a couple stops, and because it was crowded.  A mother carrying an infant boards the bus, and no one stands.  There was a man, probably about thirty sitting comfortable.  I must admit I stared at him wondering why he didn't offer his seat.  A young lady stood up and the lady was able to sit down.  Maybe I kept looking at him, because he got my attention and pointed to sort of a half seat that was available.  I indicated I was fine, but I wonder about people sometimes.  Maybe we need the rule written down, but so let me state clearly, if a woman boards the bus with a child in tow, in her arms or is pregnant, and the bus is crowded, please give your seat, don't make her ask.  
I went for a walk today, going past Tony's school.  There were at least four dog piles on the sidewalk, I wonder about people sometimes.
That's enough for my complaining.

Mal Educado--Bad Manners

I take public transportation to and from work.  When I first took the bus, and train I lived in Argentina, and there was a decorum to the way you treated others.  Often the buses, called Colectivos, were crowded.  If there was a parent with child, you gave up your seat.  If there was someone elderly,you gave up your seat.  If there was a woman, your gave up your seat.  There was an understood hierarchy. If you didn't follow this understood practice, you were a mal educado.

I have noticed that people in the U.S. have not learn these basic rules of decency.  In fact, everyone seems to be doing their best to make sure no one sits beside them.  Most buses have two seats to a row.  People will put their bag on the seat, or sit on the outside so a new passenger has to crawl over them.  On the train it is funny to watch some passengers take not only the seat next to them, but also one across from them.  Sometimes on the light rail, the bench seats which are for three people, are taken by one person lying down.  I try to ignore people poor manners.

On the light rail the other day, a couple with a child in stroller boarded the light rail.  I tried to give them my seat by standing up.  You don't always signal to them because that can cause embarrassment.  Anyway, a young man quickly sat down there before they had a chance.  I travel with a bunch of rude people.  Of course not all fit in this group, but many do.  There are those who stand giving others the opportunity to sit.  Today, my faith was actually restored to a degree.  A young woman stood up, and provided her seat to an older woman.  I felt good seeing that there are young people who do understand.  I just wish there were more.